25 People Recall The Moments That Altered Their Life Paths

#1

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My puppy climbing into my arms and resting his head on my shoulder when he first met me and I hadn’t adopted him yet. He’s now beside me snoozing in the middle of the day. I love him. Hes the best thing to happen to me and my wife.

#2

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When I was in kindergarten, my family had a house fire in the middle of a cold January night. I woke my parents and we all made it out safe. Our small town rural fire dept with a 15 minute response time, saved the house, which still stands today.

I just had my 5 year anniversary as a full time Firefighter.

#3

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In 1992 my buddy and I had a day off from our retail jobs (this is in the bay area). We decided to go up to San Francisco to hang out for the day. **I decided I wanted to go to Sega’s US Headquarters to “see Sega”** (fresh out of HS I had no idea this wasn’t a thing you could do).

Go to Sega HQ and ask to look around. Bewildered, they told me to leave as this was a business not a theme park (they were very nice, but very confused).

As we were leaving, I was backing out and hit a car exiting the parking lot.

The man I hit assumed I was the kid of someone who worked there, so we ended up talking. I informed him that I was just there because I loved Sega and wanted to look around and we had a good laugh about it. Turns out he went to the same college as I was attending at the time, and had lived in the same dorms.

The following week, when I went to pay him for the damage to the car, he showed me around and introduced me to some people and told the story of why I was there.

Two weeks later I got a job answering phones for Sega.

Been working in the video game industry for over 30 years now. Done OK for myself. Had that series of events not happened I don’t know what my life would be like today.

#4

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The moment I decided I was going to take responsibility for my own happiness and do everything I could to get out of a seriously abusive marriage. It was one of the most brutal and painstaking experiences of my life. I was told for years that I was “incapable of being happy,” and phrases like that haunted me, and made me doubt my decisions and my worth. Now, 7 years later I’m happier than I’ve ever been, healthier than I’ve ever been, and I have an amazingly supportive partner who is my best friend. Sometimes I take a look around at my life and actually cry with gratitude.

#5

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My friends wedding.

I was standing by her side as a bridesmaid, and I was picturing what my wedding would look like. I had a jarring realization that it would either be with my boyfriend, but not a single person there to celebrate with us. It would just any empty space with only me and him. Or it was going to be a wedding with a faceless man and a large crowd of loving, happy people who were so supportive.

I was trying to shake that feeling, desperately trying to convince myself that I was in fact in a healthy relationship. At the end of the ceremony, I went up to my boyfriend, and his first words to me were, “you look like a clown.”

He was my ex by the next week.

#6

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My father caught me smoking pot in the attic, d**g tested me and found out I was doing way harder d***s at age 17. He then said he was going to send me to a rehab or he can d**g test me every 2 months until I was a year clean. He made me exercise 5 days a week and work in the family business. Now I have an active lifestyle and good discipline in my daily life, that moment looking back on it changed my life forever. I will always say I have the best father on earth…I’m now 30 y/o and married to the love of my life and think of that day a lot.

#7

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I was in a dead end job that I hated. In a conversation with my Mom, I told her that I wanted so badly to be a registered nurse, but because I wasn’t smart enough to go to university I would just keep doing what I was doing. *I believed this.*

She freaked out on me in a good way. She claimed you’re very smart. Follow your dream.

I went to university. Became a registered nurse then nurse practitioner. I fucken love it.

FYI. I’m a guy, if that matters.

#8

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I grew up in one of those wildly sheltered ultra-religious families and fully, wholly believed everything I was fed through my early 20s. I remember the exact moment in 2016 when the pastor of my church told us all Christians had a duty from God to vote for Trump. Was the wake up call that started me on a long but ultimately really beautiful transformation of my worldview. Doesn’t compare to stories of traumatic loss or tragedy, but definitely marked the beginning of the end of the person I had been my whole life.

#9

Probably tomorrow. I have a date. I’ve never had a date before, so i’m very nervous.

Whatever the outcome of the date, i will get an enormous confidence boost from it.

Wish me luck, guys

The much requested update: it went very well, guys. We went for a walk through a beautiful park, then went to a quiet cafe for some tea. We were very in synch in thoughts and we both felt very at ease around each other. The nerves we both had just evaporated almost immediately after meeting. We exchanged phone numbers (we talked only through the dating app before) and we agreed to meet up for a second date.
I want to thank everyone for the kind words of encouragement, you guys rock.

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#10

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I was 22, just stayed up all night the previous monday after selling blow at a party, but all the profits, I snorted up my nose. I was laying on a makeshift bed made from old sheets and couch cushions in a spare room in my mother’s apartment, geeked out of my mind, couldn’t sleep. At almost exactly 430 am, Perfect Blue Buildings by the Counting Crows started playing which is a song about addiction, and has the line “It’s 4:30am on a tuesday, it doesn’t get much worse than this”. It seemed like it was talking directly to me. I never did another d**g in my life after that night. Now I’m 46, have a great family, just got a raise and making 135k a year, living in a beautiful home. It doesn’t get much better than this.

#11

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11 Feb 2018. The day my daughter was diagnosed with a vascular malformation in her brain.. we were told she wouldn’t be coming home. That she’d be dead at 18 months… 6 years later 8 rounds of brain surgery we still have her.

#12

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Finding out I was pregnant after being told my whole life I had a high chance of never conceiving a baby.

#13

The day I called social services on my Mum.

I am a fair bit older than my siblings and had moved out years before. There were always issues, but when I had to temporarily move in with her as an adult after finishing uni, I realised it was a million times worse than I thought.

I tried speaking to her about the problems (almost all of them caused by her drinking) and she was having none of it. In fact, she kicked me out for saying she was drinking too much and immediately banned me from seeing my siblings.

I remember phoning my (used to be) step Mum and telling her I didn’t know what else to do to help my siblings but phone social services. She told me it was the right thing to do. She also said “but you know this will be the end of your relationship with your Mum.” And even though I did know that, her putting it into words really made me think “I’m about to change my life forever”.

What I still find tough to get my ahead around though, is how I changed so many lives. My Mum’s (who spent the last 3 years of her life without her kids), my siblings (who had to move schools and house), and my siblings’ Dad’s (who had them move in with him without any notice).

Absolutely no regrets, but I remember those days so vividly.

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#14

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When my brother picked up the phone and offered me hope when I was standing on that bridge ready to end my life back on Jan 9th 2010 around 2pm.

#15

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Deciding to get sober 35 years ago.

#16

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Once I was placed with the foster family, who then went on to adopt me.

#17

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My friend showed me a cute puppy on Craigslist when I was 19. He did this literally every day, but for some reason this one I said “I want him” and I went and took him from those owners for $25. I didn’t even want a dog! Lord knows what possessed me in that moment. My whoooooole life changed. I’m a dog trainer now.

That was 11 years ago. He died in January. RIP Bugsy, you were the best thing to ever happen to me.

#18

This was actually less than 3 weeks ago.
I had made up my mind, wrote my letters, and had a plan to take all of my BP medication while everyone was sleeping. Like I said, I had made up my mind.
My brother, however, made me a valentines Day basket. It was so sweet, and when he gave me it, I almost threw up. I couldn’t do that to my family. He was so happy, though. He always kisses my cheek and hugs me so tight. He knows I struggle with depression and anxiety very badly. He makes sure I don’t feel left out. I’m the youngest. He’s 10 years older than me. He doesn’t know that candles, candies, and “I am donuts about you” mug saved my life for now.

Thanks, big brother.

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#19

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Deciding on December 2, 2019 that I’d had enough being morbidly obese. I dropped over 100 lbs im now almost 44 and i feel better than I did in my 20s. It’s never too late to make changes.

#20

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4 in the morning, I (M, 62) hear a thud in the bedroom. Found my wife (F, 59) on the floor. Massive stroke, right side affected, cognitive and speech abilities impaired. Just that quickly, both of our lives changed.

She survived, but is an entirely different person. I am her 24/7 caregiver. I can’t afford to hire someone to come in the home, so I can’t go back to work. Her income, beyond her pension, is gone as well. Financially, I’m slowly working through it. Losing over half of our income has certainly been a challenge.

Most Americans are one medical emergency away from ruin. Even with good insurance, I still have medical bills due, as well as the other financial obligations we made while still employed. Emotionally, it’s been draining. Physically, I’m tired. But, I still have my wife, so who am I to complain?

#21

I was high as a kite on my way to work. I was zonked out. Should not have been driving. Like at all. I was ALL over the road. Left shoulder, right shoulder, oncoming traffic, you name it. I was so fucked up i didn’t even notice or care what was happening. I somehow made it to a gas station about 35 minutes away without incident, where i feel asleep standing up in the line to pump gas (nodding out as we called it). Someone at the store realized i was driving and had called the police and they stalled my gas pump to give the police time to arrive.

I pump my gas and as I’m pulling away, i am surrounded by quite a few cop cars. The cop comes up to my window and tells me that someone called because they were concerned about me. He shines his light in my eyes and asks to see them. I bravely look into his eyes close up. I know my pupils are the size of a pin head, but i was so high i was confident as hell. I was no longer nodding out and was able to form coherent sentences and the cop just says ok, and looks down, and does the most disappointed head hung head shake i ever got in my life. The look of pure disappointment on his face made me realize how much I’ve been f*****g up.

When i sobered up i realized that i had been messing up really really badly, and things could have gone MUCH worse for me that morning. I am very lucky i am not dead and did not kill anyone else that morning. I am sorry to all those whose lives i put at risk the times i did that. I can’t undo what I’ve done, but i try to live my life by the best standards i can now.

I don’t know who you were officer, but you saved my life that day. I’ve been clean for 4 years now.

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#22

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In February 2016, I was 4 days late for my period. This wouldn’t raise an eyebrow for most people, but 1) you could set a clock by my cycle back then, 2) I was 31 with a history of promiscuity and the fact that I had never been pregnant up to that point had me pretty convinced I was infertile, and 3) I had just gotten engaged to a man I had been dating for about 6 months and had gotten a divorce around the time that started.

That day, I picked up a pregnancy test on my bus ride to work, tested as soon as I got to the office, and decided to go home pregnant when two tests in a row came back positive. I didn’t want to tell my partner such monumental news by text, so I told him I needed to go home early and asked him to pick me up. As soon as he closed the truck door behind himself after picking me up, he turned to me, grinning ear to ear, and said, “So you’re pregnant, aren’t you?” We both just knew. Just like we knew it would be a little girl and I knew what her name would be without ever being pushy.

It was such completely unhinged timing on my part, and things could have gone so, so badly, but that’s when I really got my life together. Something just clicked when I knew I was going to be a parent. I sought out much-needed psychiatric treatment, started taking my work and finances seriously, and stopped trying to self-destruct. I lucked out immensely. 8 years later, we are married, deeply in love, and have the most incredible 7-year-old. Luckiest break of all time.

#23

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I used to hang out with a large group of friends. I was picking on one of the guys at one of our party. He walked over and poured a beer on my head. I was much bigger than this guy and it took balls for him to do that. The whole party stopped to watch what would happen. I had an epiphany while he was doing that and realized I had been an a-hole to this guy for years. I stood up and walked over to him, beer dripping down my hair/close, and apologized for being an a*****e. I don’t think he ever forgave me, but it was a powerful lesson for me. I never wanted to be the kind of person to pick on others & I never did it again. That was 39 years ago.

#24

Feb. 6, 2018. Pancreatic cancer diagnosis. 6 years cancer free now.

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#25

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I was in full respiratory failure in the hospital on high flow oxygen and very near death. Then I received the gift of a perfect donor lungs and a flawless double lung transplant. Five year and seven months later I am living a mostly normal life.