“Why Is There Sugar in Everything?”: 30 Culture Shocks in the USA, Shared by Visitors

The United States is a vast and diverse country, offering a mix of cultures, landscapes, and lifestyles that can be both fascinating and overwhelming for visitors from abroad. When someone asked on Reddit, “For people who have visited the U.S. from other countries, what shocked you the most?” the responses poured in, revealing a range of surprising observations about American life. Here are some of the most common and unexpected things that caught international travelers off guard.

#1

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Tipping culture was very intimidating especially coming from a south east asian country.

skol_vikings_88:

It’s getting bad at this point, even for us Americans. We’re now getting asked to tip cashiers for doing nothing out of the ordinary, it’s getting ridiculous.
Like I told my wife, if I have to stand up to order, I’m not tipping anything, and no amount of social pressure is going to change my mind on that.

#2

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Just how un-walkable everywhere was.

momohatch:

Yes! As an American I usually only vacation in pedestrian friendly places. I love a walkable downtown. I don’t want to have to use a car to get around.

#3

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The amount of poverty and homelessness for “the land of opportunities”.

And also the sheer amount of plastic waste, everything is in plastic. You want a to-go coffee? Oh here, let me stick a pointless plastic piece on-top of the coffee cup lid.

On the other side, the land is beautiful, the national parks are amazing!

#4

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The working homeless. People who work full time and live out their cars. The lack of social parachute is disgusting for such a rich country. It doesn’t care about the people but the rich buggers who own it.

And the idiots vote for it to continue and get worse.

#5

Had always been told “America is the Greatest country in the world” and as a young man was contemplating moving there.

Went and was shocked at the amount of homeless, D**g addicts on the street, people with stories about how their lives fell apart due to medical debt. The fact that things i took for granted in my country “6 weeks government mandated vacation” and free healthcare was not a thing.

And that is before i met people at the college i was studying at that had friends, or had themselves seen school shootings or knew people who died in them.

To me, America felt like a 3rd world country it was like walking into an open prison where tripping on the sidewalk could “lock you up” in debt for life.

A place where my host family told me not to leave after a certain time due to fear that if i wandered the wrong neighborhood a gang could accost me and potentially hurt me.

I was shook to my core and gained a huge apreciation for my home country, a place where the only homeless people i had seen had been so because they completely refuse to interact with society, where no one had to worry if a knee operation or their education would shackle them with debt for life.

I left my home country wanting to move, and came home apreciating all i had so much more. My country has its own problems but by god i am so much more free than i thought.

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#6

Americans do monuments really, really well. Was awed by the size of Arlington cemetery but sickened by the pride the tour guide had in announcing it was almost full and they’d be opening up another section soon (this was 2015 with troops still in Afghanistan). Also struck by the hypocrisy of Americans thanking vets for their service while ignoring the number of maimed and homeless ex-military I saw begging in different parts of the country.

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#7

‘Yes, America has its problems, but it is still the best country in the world!”

“Oh! Have you ever traveled abroad?”

‘Why would I? This is the best country in the world!”

I’ve had this conversation more than once in the U.S.

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#8

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How many ads there were on TV regarding healthcare and the need to sue someone.

fossilCreature:

I have type two diabetes, but I manage it well. It’s a little pill with a big story to tell…
This s**t needs to be banned. it is in some countries…. reason why I avoid tv. The most soulless ads with the most generic people and music. it’s awful. This is what hell is.

Llama_Shaman:
Military ads at the airport. S**t was like being in Starship Troopers.

#9

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The huge side gap in stalls of public restrooms. I don’t want to make eye contact with strangers while my pants are down.

#10

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Look to your left? US flag.
Look to the right? US flag.
Car park? Huge US flag.
Car dealership? More flags than cars.
I always thought that bit in Spiderman was over the top but flaaaags! 😂.

#11

The “Me first” “Main character” mindset. It was everywhere. No one had consideration for those around them, everyone seemed so self involved, selfish, and only out for themselves. Everything from not watching where they walk and blatantly stepping in front on moving “foot traffic”, rushing to get off planes when asked to stay seated so a few passengers can make their connections, making unreasonable demands of service staff, I could go on.

After experiencing it firsthand, I understood how Trump got voted in. There doesn’t seem to be a “for the greater good” vibe, just a “what’s in it for me” vibe.

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#12

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Elderly people working. We had a waitress at a hotel who looked like she was in her eighties. It made me sad that she had to keep working.

#13

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The fact that not having a car means you are screwed.

#14

Not exactly shocking, but makes you nervous that they can carry a gun on them anywhere. Want American snacks from Walmart? Careful, there could be a shooting

The day before my family and I visited Mall of America there was a shooting in a shoe store. Outside the mall there’s stickers claiming “no guns allowed”.

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#15

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The weird uncanny valley vibe from customer service and wait staff. The overly enthusiastic act just creeped me out because it felt so fake.

Alex_butler:

Most waiters and waitresses that I’m friends with genuinely are just like that. They actually enjoy serving and want people to have a good time. Can see how that could be overwhelming if you’re not from here though.

#16

I’m always shocked at how little Americans know about history or events beyond their own borders.

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#17

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Getting charged for everything, the amount of hidden costs was nuts.

#18

Something that surprised me was how many people with unchecked mental illness were on the streets. It just felt like a huge amount of people who’ve fallen through the cracks and not received the support they need. Been to 5 states and several cities and NYC was particularly bad for this and it was pretty heartbreaking.

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#19

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Random people will stop and talk to you. I’m used to a friendly nod or a “good morning” but in America they’re open to conversations with strangers.

#20

As both a tourist and an immigrant (now a naturalized citizen) I will never not find the level of racial segregation alarming.

Look up a data visualisation of most cities based on the % of people from minority backgrounds and you’ll see concentrated populations, often in areas annexed off from other areas by highways. And there’s usually a shocking lack of amenities and infrastructure in those areas too. Plus fewer parks, sidewalks, trees and I could honestly keep going.

I was especially shocked when I found out that school funding is significantly influenced by the property taxes paid by people in the catchment for that school.

It seems completely unconscionable.

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#21

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Underdeveloped public transit system and everyone having a car.

#22

How pleasant and welcoming almost everyone was. I found the majority of people I interacted with to be friendly, polite, interested in where I came from when they heard an accent etc. I’m afraid I had allowed myself to believe that all this c**p we see online reflects the reality in US for most people, which it absolutely doesn’t. People in USA were getting along with their days and along with each other pretty well from what I see.

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#23

Canadian here. I’ve never craved vegetables more than when i came back from a road trip in the US. It’s not so bad in big cities, but on the road i could hardly find anything healthy to eat.

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#24

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The sheer size of portions made me question if I was in a buffet or a restaurant.

#25

I only went to New York, but there were two things that really struck me.

The subway looked so underfunded; the stations were dirty, the trains were broken, and it definitely didn’t feel as safe as the London underground or other similar sized metros.

The thing that really surprised me was the number of people clearly having mental health issues just left to fend for themselves. I know other countries aren’t perfect when it comes to looking after these people, but in NYC there were so many!

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#26

As a solo female traveler that only visited major cities on the east coast, it was that everywhere I went, most people acted friendly but there seemed to be an underlying sense of anxiety and caution. It’s hard to explain but it was as if fear and worry was built into their worldview in a way I haven’t seen before.

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#27

Seeing a sign on a restaurant, the first time I was ever there, stating that it was a “gun free zone”. Live in Canada, have lived in the far North close to the Arctic Circle, in large inner cities, in small rural farm communities, we certainly have our share of guns here, but to see something like this needing to be stated was….unsettling to say the least.

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#28

I don’t know how else to explain it but literally everything there is too much.

The customer service, the portions, the buildings, the cars, the way so many people act, just everything. Too big. Over the top. They do everything to excess. It’s too much. I couldn’t stand it.

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#29

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I was shocked at the state of your roads. They were f*****g s**t. The shameless amount of food waste was sickening.

#30

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So much sugar in everything. I wasn’t able to drink the sweet tea as it tasted sweeter than our cordial without water added.