30 Moments That Instantly Turned Love Into Regret

Recently, someone online posed a question that struck a nerve: “What was a red flag that made you stop talking to a person immediately?” What followed was a flood of personal stories, some funny, some disturbing, and some that might just make you re-evaluate your own standards for human interaction.

#1

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I’m an alcoholic that’s *pretty* jazzed about being sober now. You’d be surprised how many folks will pull out the “… and you don’t think you could just get away with a drink or two after being sober this long?”

idk, but I never plan to find out and it’s concerning that you feel the need to tempt me.

#2

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This guy was disgusted by how “ugly” and “gross” a party host’s newly rescued dog. The dog was emaciated and had patchy fur from starvation and neglect. Instant rejection from the sphere of people I want to have in my life.

#3

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They launch into an endless diatribe of political conspiracies that I find nauseating. Okay, I’m an old white Boomer from the south. That doesn’t mean I agree with your racist b******t fascism.

Y’all pissing me off. I got s**t to do.

#4

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Cat died in my arms. I adored him. I told a friend I made in a college class and he shrugged and said “it’s just a cat”. Never spoke to him again.

#5

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Back when I was about 15 and I was walking my gran’s new small rescue dog, saw a group of my friends, I knew including a slightly older boy I fancied.

I walk up and start chatting to the group talking about our new furry family member and his tragic history, and this lad I liked thought it would be the height of funny in that moment to lunge at the dog. He was nearly 6ft already at 17, and the dog was a small poodle. So the size difference from the perspective of that little dog must have been terrifying, especially considering the a**se he’d suffered.

The poor dog ran behind me shaking like a leaf and the lad was doubled over laughing his a*s off.

I’ve never hated someone so quickly and so intensely before or since.

I gave him a piece of my mind – which as a teen amounted to me shouting about what a total w****r he was and how I hoped he shrivelled and died. I never bothered speaking to him again, he phased out of the friend group soon after and I don’t know what happened to him.

Fortunately the dog was fine and over the course of a couple of years really developed his confidence with my gran, until he was 14 and passed peacefully in his sleep.

If by some alignment of the stars you read and remember this Dave, f**k you, you’re a w****r and I still hope you shrivelled up.

#6

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In high school my longtime crush finally started to reciprocate my feelings and we got to hanging out.

**That’s when he told me he and his buddies liked to ride their bikes, and swing baseball bats, as they chased terrified homeless people down**.

When he saw my horrified expression he was like “we don’t actually hit them! They just think we will. At worst we’ll throw brown paper bags full of dog s**t at them! Hahaha.”

That relationship lasted about half a day.

#7

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Had a guy tell me on a first date that he wasn’t further ahead in life because society is conspiring against white men.. I got the check QUICK.

#8

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My dog didn’t like him. My dog liked everyone up until that point.

#9

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She insulted my job, while not having one, and made fun of my hobbies, all while I was letting her stay at my place for a few months rent free.

#10

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I had a friend that I grew up with, played on the same teams, our parents were friends, we were in each other’s weddings. He was in the police academy and came over to the house one night during that time and said “Ya know, I thought I wanted to be a cop so I could serve and protect, really help people, ya know? Now I realize it’s so I can drive really fast, carry a gun, and beat people up”

He also went on a rant about how all homeless people should be rounded up and buried/thrown under the jail and disposed of.

We never spoke again after that day.

#11

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Saying autism is not real, it’s caused by bad parents and vaccines.

#12

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I worked with a woman at a part time job in a satellite office and at first I really liked her. She was friendly and funny. One day she started talking about the Boston bombing and several school shootings being hoaxes…her diatribe lasted the rest of the shift and got increasingly nuts. The next time I was at the main office I let them know that I would not be working with her again.

#13

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I was at a gathering and somehow Keanu Reeves came up in conversation. I mentioned how humble and selfless of a person he seemed in interviews. Just an all around good person. The person I was talking with responded: “Too bad he’s an atheist and is going to hell.” That was it for me. I walked away.

#14

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Guy at work said, “You can’t blame a man for going after them when they’re in their prime.” When someone mentioned they heard some of Diddys victims were as young as twelve.

#15

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I dated a girl for a short while who quickly started alluding to me being the love of her life. She then all of a sudden said she needed to “find herself” and said we should break up. I told her I had fun, thanked her for her time and went on my way. Not even two days later she called me crying asking “That’s it!? You’re not even going to try to chase me!? Did I mean so little to you!? I can’t believe what a heartless jerk you are!”. Nope… Got out of there but not without a plethora of other calls and messages and unfortunate happenings.

#16

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When they reveal that they enjoy any type of Cruelty against animals.

#17

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Told me that they wanted to drown someone at some point just to watch the life leave their eyes. Not anyone in particular. Just wanted to experience m*******g someone, specifically through drowning.

I noped out of there as fast as I possible could.

#18

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Homophobia. My friend didn’t mind at all at first but as soon as I got a girlfriend she started to tell me how I deserve to be burned alive… Never blocked someone so fast.

#19

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Found out I was pregnant with my current partner and we mutually decided we would not keep it. We’re on the wrong side of 35 and can’t afford it.

His “best friend” looked me dead in the eye and asked

“Do all women do this early in relationships, think they’re pregnant to keep their men?”

Positive p**s and blood tests and the need for a medical procedure I never wanted to endure, but sure, I’m just making this all up to keep my partner.

I’d kept my mouth shut on his flat earth theories until then but that was the last straw.

#20

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Met a guy at the gym and invited him to hang out with my friends later on that week at the bar. He seems totally normal. Later at the bar we’re talking and he drops an incredibly racist joke out of nowhere. Stops the conversation dead in its tracks and we all look at him and noone says anything or laughs. He mumbles something about us being too sensitive and didn’t say much the rest of the night. Haven’t talked to or seen him since.

#21

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My coworker told me he knew his wife was having a seizure at work. Drove to her job (retail/grocery) asked where she was they told him she hadn’t shown up. So he knew she was in her car but he decided to shop around a lil bit before finding her. By the time he got out to her car someone else had called an ambulance and was helping her. I haven’t been able to look at him the same.

#22

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Met someone for a date. We went on a hike and I tripped over a log and fell on my hands, and they non-stop pointed and laughed at me hysterically for 5 minutes straight. Didn’t offer to help me up, offer any consolation, just laughed in my face for 5 minutes. Kept bringing it up the rest of the hike how stupid I looked falling and laughing again.

#23

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I told a guy I only had time for a coffee date because I had a study group to attend. He kept trying to extend again and again and eventually asked if I would go “watch a movie” at his place. I said uhh no, I have to leave now and he knocked on my car window so I’d roll it down, then refused to let go of the top of the glass. I had to pull away slowly with him still holding on.

Study group laughed their asses off when I told them why I was late. He didn’t get a second date.

#24

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An old buddy I used to work with stopped in to b******t.

When he started explaining that he learned you don’t need a drivers license because the gov is a big corporation and we can renounce our spot and declare ourselves “freemen” I just gave up on him.

It’s been around 5 yrs now.

#25

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He said he had an “alpha” personality…yikes.

#26

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I was with someone for a couple of months and it all fell apart in a matter of minutes when he sent me a voice note complaining about the fact that I was depressed and had been for too long (at this point it had been two weeks that I’d fallen into a pit) and that my depression was making him feel depressed, and that I lied to him about who I was when we met because I wasn’t in a depression pit at the time that we met, I noped the f**k out of that situation instantly…surprisingly, the relief I felt actually helped me feel a bit better.

#27

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Best friend from high school say volunteering to get the covid vaccine was the same as willingly getting on the train to a c****************p, images and all. When I reminded him of my family’s history with the H*******t and his post lacked some common sense, he doubled down and then some. Haven’t spoken a word to him since.

#28

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They got arrested for inappropriately touching a 12 year old girl.

#29

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When I meet someone and they make fun of someone’s looks or just focus on someone’s body/features too much. “She has a big x” so the f**k what? Why does that bother you? Who cares if someone is attractive to you or not? Like literally why does it matter or change your life at all? I know people in their 40s who still do this….. .

#30

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When they used me as an alibi for cheating on their spouse.