25 People Call Out Stereotypes That Need to Go Away

Reddit is a goldmine of candid conversations, and when someone posed the question, “What stereotype do you find most annoying or offensive?”, netizens didn’t hold back. The thread quickly filled with examples of stereotypes people have encountered and how these generalizations can be frustrating, harmful, or downright ridiculous. Here are some of the most impactful responses that highlight the complexities of stereotyping.

#1

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Chronically ill/disabled people don’t exaggerate symptoms for attention. Generally we downplay how much pain we’re in.

#2

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That old people are out of touch.

Some are. Some aren’t. Some are way cooler than you.

#3

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Used to be ASE Certified and had an automotive career for two years before I left due to realizing I had no future in it. Most people won’t admit it but they won’t believe anything I tell them about what’s wrong with their car despite my extensive knowledge and experience along with schooling and certifications, and an overall very conspicuous passion for working on cars. Doesn’t matter, they see b**bs and think I’m cosplaying as a mechanic for attention. I had to be perfect or I wasn’t good enough while the 19 year old working next to me gets promoted with no certifications at all, and proceeds to cause a customers tie rod end to come loose.

Stereotypes can hurt. They can ruin careers. They ruined mine.

#4

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Women are just “on their period” when they get angry or sad. Like I’m sorry maybe I’m mad because you’re an idiot.

#5

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One of the stereotypes I hate most about women, is that people assume that all women want children, that it’s in their biology and they are naturally born mothers.

#6

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I can’t stand the people that think you have to be physically disabled to be disabled. Mental disability is real, and its BS to get told “well you don’t looked disabled” when you have to fight every second of the day, pretending to be normal and keep your sh!t together until you can get home!!!

#7

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Boys can’t be r*ped because they all want it, as someone that was abused as a child and reported it to female teachers, nurses, neighbors, social workers, other teachers and nurses.

even at ages from 9-13 when i was homeless begging for help, no one thinks boys deserve help, like no you have a p*nis. you don’t need or deserve help, not even worthy of calling like police or someone anyone. i thought i didn’t deserve help. i lived my life never asking for help thinking i don’t deserve it.

as a young adult desperately trying to fix my mental problems so i could have a normal relationship with women, there’s no help, when i called help lines, the only help available was if I was a rapist or perpetrator of child abuse, there’s none for if you as a boy were a victim.

#8

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That if you are not the stereotype of your race then you are trying to act like another race.

On-na_String:

When I lived in Virginia, a white girl told me I didn’t “act black” because some black kids in our school bullied her for her Texan accent.
Then when I was in the south, a black dude told me I acted white because I didn’t talk like them (I don’t have a southern accent). My older siblings have been told similarly.
I haven’t gotten a comment like that in years, but I remember it being a bit bothersome because I don’t believe you can “act” any race….

#9

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All Middle easterners assumed to be Muslims when there are many that aren’t.

#10

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I (white) married a black woman so I have a “thing” for black women. I just found a cool person to share my life with, it’s not that deep. I mean, I have a thing NOW, but I wasn’t looking for a black woman going in to dating.

#11

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The old (and inaccurate) saying: “if you’re not a liberal when you’re young, you have no heart, and if you’re not a conservative when you’re older, you have no brain.”

What complete nonsense.

#12

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That fast food workers are dumb. Used to work in fast food and realised a good majority of the public are incredibly stupid.

#13

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Dads being incompetent, lazy, a*shats. I mean, it’s just heartbreaking how rare it feels to see dads that are actually proud and hardworking parents in media.

#14

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“Fat people are lazy.”

My entire immediate family is overweight (including me). My mom and dad worked full time jobs and took care/raised the three of us. They both have lost weight over and over again – then gained some or all back. Us, their children, have inherited the ability to gain weight extremely easily. We’ve all held jobs since 16 or 17. Have been described as the most reliable and responsible people you’ll ever employ. However we’ll always be judged as lazy. Because we’re overweight. Trust me, if it was as simple as “eating less, moving more” or “calories in, calories out” my family would all have a normal BMI.

#15

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Men don’t change diapers. When I do.

d2r7:

There should be baby changing stations in more public restrooms, not just ‘Ladies/Women’ and ‘Family” bathrooms, because dads gotta do dad things.

#16

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Any stereotype that has the potential to turn violent. Ex. Asians have COVID, Asian women are easy, Latino/as are d**g dealers, Black people are dangerous, etc. People get attacked and even k*lled because of these types of stereotypes.

#17

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Introverts = shy and awkward.

#18

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That old people are clueless about technology.

#19

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Quite annoyed when gays are portrait all glamorous “~ooh, darling”-like.

#20

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I’m a black woman and I am not angry. I’m actually a really kind and caring person that looks for the positive in situations.

#21

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Women being bad drivers was my first thought.

#22

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It’s probably not the most offensive but I work in retail and it annoys me that so many people think that its easy and that we’re all stupid and unskilled.

If you have a conversation with someone about politics or science or whatever, you’ll often get a back-handed ‘compliment’ that you’re ‘too intelligent’ to work in a supermarket, as if the fact that you work in retail must mean that you’re dumb as a box of rocks.

OK, some of us are, me included at times but I hate when people think I’m an idiot before I’ve even had the chance to open my mouth and say something stupid yet!

#23

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That people who don’t speak your language are stupid.

anon:

To add: On the flip side that people that speak more than one language are intelligent (they could be ignorant racists in multiple languages). I agree with your statement.

#24

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That Irish people all love the drink and are either constantly drunk or on the lookout for an opportunity to get drunk.

It’s enough to drive you to the bottle.

#25

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That just because I’m bisexual must mean I want to have a threesome or that I’ll cheat during a relationship. Like no and no. Please stop asking me if I’m down for one, I’m not.

#26

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That men can’t be alone with kids without looking suspicious.

#27

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Honestly “Karen” is getting really old and taken way out of context. Need to start calling crazy what it is. Crazy. Rude. Inconsiderate. Selfish. Ignorant. Entitled. Dramatic. Let’s get more specific folks.

#28

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That Americans are just a bunch of exnophoboc, racist, gun toting, truck driving, close minded morons.
I mean, me, driving a truck? Not a chance.

#29

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That people that didn’t go to college are lazy.

#30

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I hate it when someone streotypes about how a man should do the first move and we, a woman, should just wait for it. And if a woamn do the first move they will have an impression that that woman is a s**t and is a thirsty for man..